There are men who can not

There are men who do not know, I would say to the IMF Managing Director Dominique Strauss-Kahn, who has changed his hotel room for $ 3000 a New Yorker a prison cell. Many men still think that a female is not a yes shy. Many believe that to win a woman is assaulted, invade with their proposals, and insist that his denials are a sign of frigidity, no determination and freedom.

To say this does not deny that men are sensitive, thoughtful, who can see a woman, hear their things, wait, talk to her. There are men who are fascinated by a female come into your reality, are included in it and so will conquer that place where female desire. However, they are the minority.

Serve my experience as an observer, as a professional and as a woman to explain. Take the example of social networking, facebook, medium for networking and personal. Many men are based on a picture to contact a person, woman. Not consider the data that indicates that only want professional contacts, either by using the profile only to report their activities. They see a woman and think it's a woman. This leads to conversations where a sea bream tries to explain to them that friendship is produced, it can not be compelled to be your friend, that you need not give information about your marital status, you're not there to chat, if you are interested in any of your services can continue the conversation, and if not, better make that contact for inconsistent settled for only flirt with a stranger.

It is clear that men today are not like before, thankfully. Many have managed to conquer certain parcels of family life, emotional sensitivity and a different air in the cosmetic and hygiene. But I can not deny that men now, many of them, have become a bit clumsy. They have lost the ability to be constant, complain about the job and not get discouraged when they want to change first. What a world this! What happened to the persistence, manly spirit of conquest? Confuse an image of a woman with a woman, that is, do not consider that a woman in the professional field is not a woman, that a chief is not a woman, that image is one thing and another the role each plays in each time.

Guys, wake up! You must learn to interpret situations, to distinguish the different roles of people, being a woman does not mean to serve the desires of men. We have much to say, a non-league if the other does not. To speak we have to want them. To go to bed, too. The twenty-first century woman is a woman no service object of male desire, she is a subject of his desires, a working woman, free to decide and establishing more equal relationships with men.