The transcendence which is the union family and its values

How easy it is for human beings unfulfilled promise! And how comforting it is when you can check and know that there is someone who does not. Mario Benedetti

It is very sad not to go on what the family is in our passing from this plane, not being aware about it, to neglect their reach, what is involved and help in our personal and spiritual growth.

It is said that the family is the community where children are taught from the values ​​and the proper use of freedom. The personal and family stability are the foundations of freedom, security and fraternity within society. This is why it starts in the family social life

Indeed, we consistently neglect what is in the family unit, their securities, have been given life, its role and impact on our behavior, growth.

It is therefore we neglect towards ensuring your marriage, your strength, which represents in our evolution, as stated values ​​are neglected

In this regard, edumexico.net, gives us that family values ​​among family members are established affinity relationships involving feelings, affections and interests which are based on mutual respect of people.

Very well appointed gives us the power not to forget that the family is the first that teach values, values ​​that will sustain for life in society and throughout the life of the person. Among others are the following: joy, generosity, respect, fairness, loyalty, responsibility, self-esteem.

All are important, however it is important to note regarding the respect, loyalty and self-esteem.

With regard to strengthening respect for family unity, it must be remembered, not only respect for the individual, but also their opinions and feelings. Respect the things of the other members, for privacy, respect for their decisions, they, of course, appropriate to the age of the person. Is in the family where the child learns that he or she and her ideas and feelings deserve respect and are valued.

With regard to the loyalty comes when you accept ties that bind us to others, so that it seeks to strengthen and safeguard these ties and the values ​​they represent. The acceptance and recognition of this link is not focused toward the future, as a possibility but a reality. This link does not pass with time, is deep, is ripened and strengthened over time.

In the family's rise and strengthen these links, for example, a young child learns to be loyal to strive to help others, to try to do everything we can to meet what their parents say it is good. It shows loyalty between brothers to support, defend and help with the difficulties, the threat to persons or circumstances beyond the family.

It should be clarified to be loyal to the parents, for example, does not mean approving a wrong of the same, but the respect and protect your good name, is about being honest with them, as well as help them overcome difficulties.

Regarding self-esteem shows us that this is one of the fundamental values ​​for human beings mature, balanced and healthy. This value has its roots and foundations in the family.

Self-esteem means deeper vision that each person has of itself a decisive influence in elections and decision-making, thus forming the kind of life, activities and values ​​we choose.

From childhood we build the concept of ourselves according to messages received from our parents, siblings, relatives, friends and teachers. It is the sum of self-confidence, a sense of our worth and our ability. This is based on the variety of thoughts, feelings, experiences and feelings that we have accumulated throughout our lives, but mainly throughout our childhood and adolescence.

If you want to build a strong and balanced, it is vitally important that as parents we feel our children deserve to be loved with an unconditional, ie not conditional on their behavior, skills or attitudes.

Raising the self esteem of our children is vital as it helps to develop the conviction that is esteemed and valued, which is competent to face life with confidence and optimism, and that is worthy of happiness.

Just by cultivating self-esteem in each of the members of the family, will consolidate a strong, able to withstand any kind of onslaught and lead the family to thoroughly enjoy what it is generated and never let the loneliness, or any other negative aspect is given and the harm.

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